Why do I procrastinate, self-sabotage, over commit...?
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The Detective Therapist investigates the hidden psychology behind why smart people get in their own way — and how to finally stop. I investigate bad habits or patterns that keeps you stuck.
I want to help you have a happier, healthier life.
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No therapist? No problem.
I was recognizing patterns had to be related that were holding me back. For example: both binge eating and overspending.
Or that I loved overcommitting, causing exhaustion and that I also that I loved making people happy even at my expense (people pleasing.)
I had a therapist. Several. It's hard to find a good fit and it can be expensive.
In 2020, I became obsessed with self-improvement. Because of that, I got out of a dead end relationship and had the courage to pivot careers.
I want to help you solve the crimes you are committing against yourself so you be the version of yourself you have always dreamed of. I'm not a therapist or a detective. But I believe when it comes to bad habits, patterns and beliefs, we can solve our own case.
Readers are cracking their own cases:
"The 'half-assed results' video made me pause and rewatch it four times. I sent it to my partner. Then my sister. Then my therapist."
Daniel W., subscriber
"I came for the money content and stayed because I realized every video was actually about me. The overcommitment one broke something open."
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"It's not therapy and it's not self-help. It's like having a detective explain your own behavior to you — and somehow that's exactly what I needed."
Priya R. subscriber and inaugural class of Money Trauma Book Club
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